What should i do if i have started to drink alcohol to drown my problems, but those bastards have now learned how to swim?

Slap em around: Drowning your sorrows with alcohol has proven by many not to help. Either it doesn't help at all, or is temporary if you pass out or get drunk, but the after effect is worse, like addiction, effect on work and family and people around you and your health. Get help from a psychologist or counselor if needed and confront the problems to find solutions. The song says love is all you need. Good luck.

DIY PROJECTS: I can certainly understand the desire to explore DIY projects but there are times when the pros need to do it.The drink has the initial effect of relaxation/giddiness but as you continue the depressant nature of the drug kicks in. Self treating is easy but doing the same thing & expecting different results is the definition of crazy.Find a life coach/therapist & learn some new coping skills.