Have lost interest with my husband and have low sex drive during sex he only last for like a minute which is very frustrating and don't know what to d?

Complicated: You might try seeing a sex therapist. They can help assess your sex drive and factors that might be reducing it (stress, alcohol, lack of exercise, etc.). They can also assess your ability to have an orgasm, which is equally important for women as it is for men. Only about 1/3 of women can have an orgasm from penile-vaginal penetration alone. Most women require clitoral stimulation.