Question 1

what can you give my husband to help him cum. its hard for him. ?

Accepted Answer

See below: He should be evaluated by his primary care provider and referred to a urologist if necessary to rule out causes of erectile dysfunction or other sexual disorders. If there is nothing wrong physically, then he may benefit from a referral to a mental health professional.

Question 2

i had sex with my husband and he was hard an went down he didn't cum what do that mean?

Accepted Answer

Erectile dysfunction: I assume you mean he lost his erection w/o reaching orgasm. That happens to all men at some time or another. If this is 1st time, and he is otherwise healthy, most likely, it won't happen again. It has nothing to do w/you but more to do w/him. Maybe he's distracted or worried about money, job, family, etc. Too much alcohol. Smoking. New medications. Diabetes. If keeps happening, he should see doc.

Question 3

hubby did spermcheck test, came back neg. directions say don't ejaculate for 2 days. hubby got hard on day 1, but no cum. could that cause negative?

Accepted Answer

Nope: These tests usually detect whether a minimal number of sperm or motile sperm are present. Even 1 day of abstinence (had he ejaculated day prior) should not usually give this result. Suggest evaluation by a urologist.  For more info see: http://www.Theturekclinic.Com/oligospermia.Html.

Question 4

i am having a hard time ejaculation when having sex with my wife of 22yrs.  she gets me extremely hard, but i cant cum.  i cam cum when masturbating.

Accepted Answer

Finish in vagina: Not uncommon.  Start hand job sex.  ---  as orgasm approaches, change positions quickly and go into vagina for a wonderful finish.  You said you have a good erection,  so this should be a fun game

Question 5

i'm homosexual and my boyfriend and i tried anal and now it's hard for me to poop.will it give me something or hurt me if i cant get the cum out.

Accepted Answer

Check: If persistant would see doc. Retention of ejaculate should not be harmful.

Question 6

when i have sex i cannot ejaculate but i do get hard, why ?

Accepted Answer

: Side effects of some medications and surgery on the prostate can do that. If it persists pl see a Urologist for cause.

Question 7

hi, i am a 23 years old guy who have a problem with staying hard during sex. i just lost my virginity last month, but the problem is, i cant stay hard when doing it. and i cant ejaculate at that time. at first i thought maybe because i was nervous, but in

Accepted Answer

Primary Anxiety: Your primary anxiety is based on performance. You first have a problem staying hard during sex and then you have secondary anxiety, i.e., you become anxious about becoming anxious! You project your mind (thought) into a future event that hasn't happened yet. For example, you are about to have sex and you say to yourself: "What if I can't stay hard during sex. Then you Awfulize about this event.

Question 8

husband says he's lost desire and cannot maintain erection (when we do have sex) long enough to ejaculate?

Accepted Answer

Health: Diabetes, vascular disease, urologic issues may exist.
Complete urological history and exams are needed.

Question 9

my husband cant ejaculate during intercourse. only when masturbating.we want a baby.dont see it happening relying on pre ejaculation only.please help?

Accepted Answer

IUI: You may want to consider something called IUI, or intrauterine insemination. He could ejaculate through masturbation, and then that would be directly injected into the uterus. You can talk to your OBGYN about this.

Question 10

my husband had a semen analysis done. all was fine apart from semen was like glue making it hard for sperm to get to egg. will we be able to conceive?

Accepted Answer

It is normal: After ejaculation, glue like semen is normal. If you wait for a while, the semen will become liquid. As long as semen analysis shows normal your chance of conceiving is still good. Alternatively, you may tray IUI if failed conceive for one year.

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What can you give my husband to help him cum. its hard for him. ?

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I had sex with my husband and he was hard an went down he didn't cum what do that mean?

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Hubby did spermcheck test, came back neg. directions say don't ejaculate for 2 days. hubby got hard on day 1, but no cum. could that cause negative?

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I am having a hard time ejaculation when having sex with my wife of 22yrs. she gets me extremely hard, but i cant cum. i cam cum when masturbating.

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I'm homosexual and my boyfriend and i tried anal and now it's hard for me to poop.will it give me something or hurt me if i cant get the cum out.

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When i have sex i cannot ejaculate but i do get hard, why ?

A member asked:

Hi, i am a 23 years old guy who have a problem with staying hard during sex. i just lost my virginity last month, but the problem is, i cant stay hard when doing it. and i cant ejaculate at that time. at first i thought maybe because i was nervous, but in

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Husband says he's lost desire and cannot maintain erection (when we do have sex) long enough to ejaculate?

A member asked:

My husband cant ejaculate during intercourse. only when masturbating.we want a baby.dont see it happening relying on pre ejaculation only.please help?

A member asked:

My husband had a semen analysis done. all was fine apart from semen was like glue making it hard for sperm to get to egg. will we be able to conceive?

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