Question 1

i don't have goals in life. i don't know what i'm doing with my life. i just hate my family and my appearance. i can't sleep well. i wanna die.

Accepted Answer

Go to ER: What you have is a psychiatric emergency and you need to deal with such condition as a real emergency, kindly to ER or if you have a personal doctor you trust, visit his/her office today, wish you well and good luck

Question 2

dear doctor, i hate using public toilets, hence i tend to hold my bowl to find a convenient toilet. by the time the urge disappears. is it bad? how?

Accepted Answer

Relax: You are developing a phobia. Careful hand washing and bathroom hygiene should assure you.

Question 3

i can't get out of bed, i don't see the point in being alive. i hate my life and want to die. i rape, abuse victim. do i have mental health condition?

Accepted Answer

Yes: From your statement you have post traumatic stress disorder and depression.You need to tell someone what you wrote here.They can help you arrange a mental health evaluation and treatment.Do it now.Waiting only increases the pain.

Question 4

i  stopped treatment because i fear that my dr and pysch hate me and think i am a bother. , i worry what they think and don't know why and want to die?

Accepted Answer

Depression: David you are very depressed you need to find a physician that you can trust as soon as possible and continue to take your medicine

Question 5

is it possible for someone to die as a result of brachioplasty surgery? i hate my arms but i am too scared to opt for brachioplasty surgery.  has anyone ever died from this procedure?

Accepted Answer

Hello,
Part : Hello, 
part of the consultation and patient selection process before surgery is intended to confirm that : 1) the patient is healthy and suitable for a planned nonessential surgery (called elective), and  2) that they have the tissue quality which will respond to surgery and produce a satisfying result.
Naturally we never perform cosmetic surgery when there is avoidable risk. Of course there are probably patient fatalities in the literature when they had body contouring, including brachioplasty. But it is a very unexpected outcome, compared to the risk of fatal outcome when treating someone with a ruptured aneurysm or gunshot wound for instance.
Just do your homework, stay healthy, develop a warm relationship with a board certified plastic surgeon. The more the arm surgery is merely skin resection devoid of fat, the better.

Dan downey md facs
downey plastic surgery.

Question 6

crushing a pain killer(opioids)instead swallow it complete can cause death?what if you bite just a little to increase the effect?i hate taking pills.

Accepted Answer

Not advised: talk to the prescriber of your mess about your issues with pills, there are other options for pain, but do not crush or split any pills.

Question 7

i hate to become an adult
l want to stay a kid
it's very hard i hate to see my life changing
i feel i am dieing
plz help?
thanks drs

Accepted Answer

Find a life coach: People are destined to spend the majority of their life as an adult &amp; childhood is a time of building/acquiring the skillset needed for that period. If you have not gained the skillset needed to face the challenges of adulthood you need to fine a life coach, counsellor, therapist psychologist or psychiatrist who can guide you as you learn them. You are not the first with these thoughts or the last

Question 8

i hate sex but i love sex?

Accepted Answer

I see.: Perhaps a therapists could help you with your conflicted feelings on sex.

Question 9

i hate being me what causes it?

Accepted Answer

Many possibilities: There can be many causes. Most people "hate" certain aspects of themselves, whether it has to do with their appearance, or their life circumstances (job/relationship etc), even people that seem to "have it all" have some insecurities and things they hate about themselves. Depression can magnify those feelings, due to low levels of serotonin, so consider talking to your Dr or a therapist if needed.

Question 10

i hate my life by theory of a deadman?

Accepted Answer

Very cynical song: This is one of the most cynical songs i've heard lately.  I hope you don't feel this way about your own life -- but if you do, please see a mental health professional for evaluation.

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I don't have goals in life. i don't know what i'm doing with my life. i just hate my family and my appearance. i can't sleep well. i wanna die.

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Dear doctor, i hate using public toilets, hence i tend to hold my bowl to find a convenient toilet. by the time the urge disappears. is it bad? how?

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I can't get out of bed, i don't see the point in being alive. i hate my life and want to die. i rape, abuse victim. do i have mental health condition?

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I stopped treatment because i fear that my dr and pysch hate me and think i am a bother. , i worry what they think and don't know why and want to die?

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Is it possible for someone to die as a result of brachioplasty surgery? i hate my arms but i am too scared to opt for brachioplasty surgery. has anyone ever died from this procedure?

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Crushing a pain killer(opioids)instead swallow it complete can cause death?what if you bite just a little to increase the effect?i hate taking pills.

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I hate to become an adult l want to stay a kid it's very hard i hate to see my life changing i feel i am dieing plz help? thanks drs

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I hate sex but i love sex?

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