20 year old female, no sex drive at all. not on birth control and i've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years.how can i boost my libido? its killing us!

Get a check up: You need a thorough exam along with test to determine harmone levels. Good luck.

Please see a Gynecologist for a complete physical exam and recommendations for treatment if this is a physical problem. If not, please see a Clinical Psychologist with expertise in multiple types of psychotherapy for help and possibly a Psychiatrist for medication. If you are not confident in your Gynecologist please see a second opinion.