Wife had child epil till 13. shes now 36 & had a grand mal. the doc thought reoccur. about 30 sec before her seizure i wrapped my arms under her breasts and pulled her up hard which made her grunt in pain. then she had her seizure. could this be why?

No your action did not cause the seizure

The generalized seizure was coincidental and not due to your interaction. The current episode is not related to childhood epilepsy remitting 23 yrs ago and is due to a new onset. The underlying cause should be sought and appropriate therapeutic intervention started. She should not drive, do activities at heights, or use power equipment.