I can't have sex. every time i try to have sex my lady parts feel like burning and my partner feels it impossible to get it. it happened 3 times i feel tight. i can't even get a finger in. i highly doubt i have vaginismus. what to do?

The best advice I could give you is to go see your GYN. It may be something as simple as requiring a lubricant. To make sure it is nothing more concerning have your GYN examine you and she or he will be able to diagnose and treat the problem

I would suggest 2 likely -to help solutions. First you should have a pelvic examination by a gynecologist(female preferably) to make sure that you female parts are normal and healthy. Secondly you should practice relaxation exercises whenever you feel tense or anxious. Breathing exercises is a form of muscle relaxation which you can practice anytime you feel anxious or tense. This will surely help