Is it possible for a virgin to get pregnant when he ejaculates near her vagina for instace in the thighs is it okay to take birth control pills ?

Yes, but not easily: No sexual intercourse required. As long as some fertile semen get into the vagina of a fertile woman, there is chance of a pregnancy. That means if she lies there in a position such that inside of her vagina can be seen, and he squirts semen from a distance but it lands inside her vagina, it can be the start of a cute new baby. Birth control pills, injections, implants, IUD's, condoms are options.