My boyfriends die heart wished that i will bleed when i will have my first sex. i never ever penetrate any thing in my vagina ever its quite intact but i somehow rub my clitoris and got discharge had i destroyed my hymen? ????

Not a normal wish!: Only in cases of alleged sexual assault upon girls and women do we physicians engage in the careful examination of hymens, collecting evidence of physical damage to be used later in courts of law. In normal everyday life, people should not be "checking hymens" nor thinking about whether they are broken or not broken. As good citizens, we must prevent discriminatory treatment of girls and women.