I had a hsv 1 genital outbreak while i had the flu, the sores are gone but it seems like i have some skin discoloration in the spot the sore was, is this normal and im on antiviral meds for 10 days now and had sex yesterday, how contagious am i?

Probably safe: Once open sores are gone, infectiousness is markedly reduced; continued discoloration makes no difference. Herpes is sometimes transmitted in absence of visible sores, but quite rare with genital HSV1 (unlike HSV2). Your partner can have a blood test to see if s/he already has HSV1, as do half of all adults in the US. If so, s/he is immune to new HSV1 and will never catch it from you.