Is hiv hard to get? what's the rate of catching hiv from heterosexual intercourse without cum inside with unknown status men?

Use protection: The risk is low but real. A majority of infected husbands having unprotected sex do not infect their wives. However, even a low risk is more than you want, especially in an era when a man's not even a gentleman if he doesn't put on a condom without being asked. You're risking pregnancy, other sexually transmitted diseases (herpes is for a lifetime), and unwanted friends. Love wisely.