Im not sexually active 6mo- 2yrs no sex. everytime i get sex i feel a bit pain and slight bleed, is that normal? i dont feel relaxed too

Intimacy: I am so sorry to hear this! Be sure to have an exam by a Gyn specialist to rule out anatomic or other medical cause. Are you communicating your needs with your partner? Is he attentive? Do you feel comfortable? Consider exploring with a trusted friend or counselor your concerns with "not feeling relaxed". Feeling relaxed is necessary for great sex! Hope this helps!