I shave my anus and butt hair why when i use drysol at night cornstarch in the morning and bootyfresh they still smell me i take oxybutinin too help?

First, the culprits: Retained feces mixed with urine/perspiration/bacteria is the problem you are valiantly trying to address! Try an antiperspirant gel or soap; use a loofah or washcloth to clean everywhere! Shaving (carefully) may help. Some use apple cider vinegar on a cotton ball; the vinegar smell doesn't linger. Try Gold Bond powder and use wipes after defecating. Avoid pills/drugs.STRESS REDUCTION! Good wishes!