My fianc and i were having normal sex with a condom. after i looked and there was blood on the condom and none when i wipe should i get checked?

Maybe not...: If there are no other symptoms besides some blood on the condom, I wouldn't necessarily get checked. Intercourse is sometimes mildly traumatic to the delicate tissues of a women and this can cause a little bleeding even when everything is fine. If you have pain or abnormal discharge that persists, you should get an exam. Best wishes!