Im 11 wks pregnant,& my libido is not there as it used to. im not horny , i don't want it , when my husband tries to turn me on, i don't get "wet". y?

Situational: I understand you're 28 yr old, had a prior miscarriage or abortion and are expecting your first child. You're reacting to biological, psychological and social factors. Your hormones are changing. It's an understandably emotional time. Keep communication open with your husband and get some help through this stressful time. Suggest you ask your OB for a referral to a therapist for guidance/support.