When having sex w/my hubby its hard for me to feel an orgasm sometimes. he seems to think that because my vagina lubricates on its on that i did have 1. i told him there is a difference. help :-(.

You may need: To change position and try self stimulation of clitoris during intercourse if you have not. It may help. Good luck.

You can do it..: Often, it takes much much longer for a woman to reach climax vs a man. Sexual excitement/drive, anxiety, stress etc.. Also influence the ability reach climax. Some people have inadequate lubrication which can cause tissue injury/pain, thus inhibit orgasm. There are lubricants you can buy--otc. Also books can help with foreplay techniques, self-pleasure etc...Talk to a sex therapist...Good luck.

Sex education: Lubrication is not orgasm, just excitement. If your husband will not listen to you, perhaps he would learn something if you visited a sex therapist or bought him a book on basic sexual knowledge. He needs also to learn how to stimulate you in a fashion which will yield orgasmic release. You seem to have a communication problem.