During oral sex no cut, sore, painful, bleeding on my mouth. i used to kiss vaginal fluid. i get herpes on next morning and bleeding. any change hiv via mucous membrane? ( if my partner is positive)

Yes!: Please see a doctor and get tested! you have mucous membranes in your mouth. Hiv can pass from vaginal fluid into even small places in your gums. Visit http://hivtest.Cdc.Gov and put in your zip code, you will be given the location of the nearest free testing clinic.

Absolutely!: You can easily acquire either type 1 or type 2 herpes from oral sex, even if partner does not have visible lesion. You need to see a doctor for herpes therapy, which should alleviate your sore, wherever it is (you did not say). In two weeks you need serologies for both types of herpes.