Right inside of my vagina hole where you would put a penis that hole burns and is really sore right inside and also under both of my flaps are really red and they burn to, i have no std's, 1 doctor says its vulvodynia and 1 says its vulvitis so im confuse

Treating MD decides: Several possibilities. Diagnosis depends on examination and any tests that may be needed. Your gynecologist is the right person to see.

Vulvodynia: If there is no infection and you have some redness and pain at time of penetration you most likely have provoked vulvodynia. Try avoiding fabric fofteners, bleach, use avenoo or neutrogena soap for your prsonal hygiene, shower not bathe, use dreft detergents, no femenine perfumes, no douche, use white all cotton underwear and white nonscented toilet paper. After urination poor water and apply oil.