How can i learn to be gay?

Born with it: Being gay is not a learned behavior. People are born with that sexual orientation.

Sexual orientation: You can learn to be gay (happy) but you can not be taught to change your sexual orientation.

Maybe you are: The fact that you're asking could indicate that you are already attracted to women and want to understand how you can express that. With males this question is fairly clear cut because sexual attraction in men is profoundly physical. Woman have a myriad of factors that affect what they're attracted to besides physical appearance and their sexual attraction for someone builds with familiarity