After intercourse, my wife does not have any leakage of semen out of her vagina. is this okay? we've been trying over a year. i don't ejaculate every time we have sex. ejaculation is never a problem during masturbation.

See a urologist: And infertilty specialist, your wife will prob need intra-uterine insemination that an infert specialist can do.

Specialists: The problem with infertility is that knowing you have infertility makes things worse. It can affect the ability to ejaculate, it can affect the number of sperm, it can affect ovulation, and cause stress. All of that can make it even harder to become pregnant. I would recommend seeing a fertility specialist.

First please have a complete physical exam with a Urologist to know if you have a physical problem. If not please see a clinical psychologist with expertise in multiple types of psychotherapy to help with emotional issues since emotions can affect sexual performance.