What can cause a small amount of fluid to drain from my anus and cause irritation in my crotch . it requires special bathroom visits to keep it clean . i am 63 yoa and take stool softeners, but have never practiced anal intercourse.?

Several causes: If you take laxative or stool softeners containing liquid paraffin or similar substance that can actually leak from the anus and soil the perineum. Inflammation of the ano-rectal area and anal fistula can also cause anal discharge. Therefore a good examination including proctoscopic exam is necessary. I suggest you see your pcp or a GI specialist.

Hemorrhoids?: Your symptoms sound a lot like the seepage from bulging internal hemorrhoids that protrude and sort of 'leak' normal colon mucus onto the skin. A check by your doctor can reassure you this is nothing serious as well as offer a course of treatment that might help.