Can't get wet or feel turned on for sex. so does foreplay seem to help?

Check hormones: You are too young to forget about sex for the rest of your life. You may be perimenopausal, ie your hormones are starting to dwindle. Ask your doc to check your hormones. Might also be that boredom has invaded the bedroom. With your clothes on in a non stressful environment, talk to your partner about trying something new. Tell him your fantasy and let him make it real. Sex therapy can help a lot.