I had painful anal sex about 4 months ago, have no stis, have pain passing stool every since. my doctor won't do an anoscopy. what should i do?

See another: First, use OTC medication as if you have a hemorrhoid. What you have is most likely a fissure, which is a tear. You need to be examined by a colorectal surgeon to determine the extent of the damages and how deep the tear is. So go and see different doctor. Meanwhile sit in a warm water in bath tub. That will relieve the pain. And make sure to keep you stool soft.

Get it done: Make sure to tell the doctor what caused the problem. It is a small scope, able to evaluate any damage to sphincter muscles.