Is lesbian sex bad for you at all? how can we make sure we're having safe sex?

Very safe: Thanks for asking. I admire your courage. There's still a risk of gonorrhea, syphilis, and herpes from oral contact, but even these are less prevalent in this community. HIV doesn't seem to be transmitted. Both men and women explore some with their own sex, and we are all complicated with much that's inexplicable. Love wisely and well, and cherish whatever seems right to you.