I stopped masturbating and now my balls hurt. is this normal?

Blue balls: The extra fluid in your prostate and seminal vesicles probably presses on structures nearby, including the genitofemoral nerves. What's going on, man? You don't have to do this to yourself. There's nothing "spiritual" or "healthy" about your balls hurting, and it will make you a less efficient worker and friend. Go back to enjoying yourself and/or find yourself someone special. Be a man.