I had sex two days ago we always use a condom and he is big . he made me bleed and i'm still spotting. what should i do?

Traumatic sex: The first step is to give Mother Nature a chance to heal and stop the bleeding over the next 3 days. If it persists, then see a GYN MD, and hold off on the ":BIG" event until this is resolved.

Get checked: If you're bleeding due to trauma and not your menstrual period then that's a medical emergency. Go to the emergency room as soon as you can.