Is there a way to lower sex drive so that i don't have the desire to have sex so much? besides masturbation.

Yes: Before treatment options are discussed though, it is important to visit with your doctor at length. The reason why you want to lower your sex drive is very important, and itself might be worth discussing further. Certain medications and therapy can be helpful, but it is CRITICAL that you do not self-treat as that could be very dangerous. Best wishes,