I'm a lesbian and when i have sex i nearly reach but have never had an orgasm and don't know why so my partner feels like she never pleases me?

Go to the Doctor: This is not normal. I am one who believes in getting examined and getting all of the right information so that you can live with intimacy and sexuality. I also often teach my female friends and patients about a movement to own their own sexuality and sexual responses. Here is where i send my female patients to start: http://www.Ourbodiesourselves.Org.