Hello, me and my partner have been having sex for a week now and i still feel dull pain and numbness a bit and i can't orgasm. is it normal?

Safe sex important: Safe sex involves protection from disease transmission and freedom from issues which cause pain. A visit to a gynecologist or to a women's health clinic would enable a careful examination for physical causes of discomfort as well as a helpful conversation concerning important aspects of the physiology and psychology of sexual activity.