I have herpes now what do i do about marrying and unprotected sex?

Herpes: I would first ask that you clarify which type of herpes you have. 75% of americans have herpes type one (the oral herpes) and 25% of americans have type two (known as 'genital' herpes). These humans have relationships, marry, have families. If the person you partner with does not have herpes there is a way for your physician to put you on a treatment to lower your contagiousness. Best wishes.