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How can i loosen up my vagina because my boyfriends penis didn't go in?

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Try lubricant: Using lubricant (ky jelly, etc) is helpful. If you are able to use tampons without difficulty, most likely there is no anatomical problem. There is no way or reason to "loosen up the vagina".

Answered 11/6/2013

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