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A 23-year-old female asked:

How can i loosen up my vagina because my boyfriends penis didn't go in?

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Dr. Patricia Fearing
Gynecology 38 years experience
Try lubricant: Using lubricant (ky jelly, etc) is helpful. If you are able to use tampons without difficulty, most likely there is no anatomical problem. There is no way or reason to "loosen up the vagina".
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Last updated Nov 6, 2013

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