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A 26-year-old male asked about a 26-year-old female:

My boyfriend has a big and long penis and i have a smaller vagina opening with my hymen intact. how should we do this for it to work?

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Dr. Bennett Werner
Cardiology 46 years experience
Easy the first time: Vaginas stretch. The first time you have intercourse may not be very comfortable for you, but subsequently you won't have any problem. If you are inviting him because you want him, you will likely be adequately lubricated which is the key to your comfort. He should hopefully be gentle, especially on the first time.
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