A member asked:

Okay whenever my boyfriend is masturbating he wants me to talk dirty to him on text to help him. is that normal? i don't like that stuff

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Dr. Pamela Pappas answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Boyfriend's desires: Each person within a sexual relationship has choices & preferences. If you "don't like that stuff" you should tell your boyfriend how you feel. Masturbation is a normal activity, but asking you to "text" him exposes you to other risks that differ from in-person contact. Texts can be shared with others. Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with, and please protect yourself!

Answered 9/16/2013

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Dr. Robert Killian answered

Specializes in General Practice

Sexuality: First: a healthy sexually active adult has a right to choose what they participate in and what they choose not to do. Second: for some, the answer is yes, it is normal to masturbate and it can be a part of some humans sexuality to have verbal 'dirty' talk. Third: I am very happy to hear you verbalize your boundaries in regards to sex. But, many people who cannot be together have phone sex.

Answered 9/29/2016

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