How can i have sex..widout having the pregnency..nd widout using contraceptives.

Sex w/o pregnancy: So you want to have sex but not get her pregnant but you don't or she doesn't want to use contraceptives? By that i suppose you mean birth control pills? Well, you should offer to wear a condom each & every time to avoid chance of stds. She can use a diaphragm, sponge or iud. Check w/planned parenthood for all your options. Get creative: consider oral sex or mutual masturbation. No pregnancy risk!