A member asked:

I had sex one time and the thoughts of whether i have std or hiv are killing me. its been 15 days. i got all the tests doneafter nine days and they were negative. i am so sad. help me.

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Dr. Robert Killian answered

Specializes in General Practice

Living life: I am sorry to hear of your pain. Sex is supposed to bring us pleasure. It can bring up peace, love, intimacy, spirituality! rarely does sex bring disease. If you have no symptoms then what specifically are you obsessing about?

Answered 7/24/2013

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Dr. Anthony Vertino answered

Specializes in Clinical Psychology

Get to a therapist: Fears over stds and hiv's are a cause for counseling. Discuss this with a trained professional - in person. They can provide more in depth information and support.

Answered 5/14/2016

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Dr. Pamela Pappas answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Sex & fears: It sounds like your sexual experience brings with it many fears and conflicts. You can of course see a doctor or clinic for testing & counseling. Your negative tests so far do not seem to be lifting your worry-burdens, though. Instead you have anxiety, sadness and wishing for death. Please tell your doctor. S/he can help you get more focused treatment -- therapy really can help. Meds too.

Answered 7/24/2013

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