What about ditropan (oxybutynin) xl?

It's there...: It's a good choice for women with overactive bladder and urge incontinence. I often use it for urinary urgency in both males and females, although, i prefer an immediate release formulation. It's been shown to work in men with benign prostate hypertrophy to improve their urination.

What about it: It is an anticholinergic drug that relaxes the bladder....Can reduce frequency and urgency...Xl means long acting.