How to get a tan without going to a tanning place i'm really white and i go out side a bunch so... why am i still really white?

Damages skin: Tanning is actually a result of sun damage of the dna in the skin. Over time the damage can accumulate to the point where skin cancer and wrinkles develop earlier than they otherwise would. Avoiding tanning would actually result in having healthier looking and younger looking skin for many more years. Artificial spray tans may be a better way to get the desired look without damaging your skin.

Heredity: is the major determinate of skin color. People who are naturally fair skinned are at high risk for damage due to sun exposure (trying to tan), especially the risk of skin cancers. It is best to try to adjust to your natural skin color and except that as part of your individually. Protect your skin with sunscreen to reduce the risk of skin cancer, as well as wrinkles and premature aging of skin.