Recently lost virginity 7 weeks ago, still painful during sex & vulva swells so much it's impossible to continue. piles also come out after anal sex & won't go back in easily until after a few days. vulva still sore after few days post sex + stings?

So sorry you're going through this following your first sexual intercourse. You need to be professionally examined, and the sooner the better. This definitely isn't normal and should be pretty easy to diagnose and treat. Good luck.

Let both the areas heal -2-3 weeks and for vaginal sex use a good lubricant generously. I would not recommend anal sex for your hemorrhoid's might act up. If the bother you see a surgeon for treatment.