Love; she is on medication for crohn's and ra. i am diabetic but in excellent control. last week a1c was 5.5. somehow sexually chemically toxic. life only allows time together every 2 weeks. then her weeks! of yeast infections to follow. monogamous?

It is not feasible to address your question, if any. It would be helpful if you would describe and health related symptoms you may have. For healthy diet: http://www.choosemyplate.gov/., exercise 30 minutes/day, drink enough water daily so your urine is mostly colorless, have safe sex, no tobacco alcohol weed or street drugs. Wish you good health!