I've read everything i can find about blighted ovum. i decided to naturally let things happen. its been a week so far, and i've stopped bleeding, no cramps. is it safe to self pleasure? *nothing inserted* how can i get things naturally moving faster?

"Natural" is not necessarily better. Rattle snakes are natural. Depending on the size of the ovum, amount of amniotic fluid and other factors, not evacuating the uterus could result in serious consequences. It would be prudent to consult with your gynecologist. You may pleasure yourself, bit it will be better when you are healthier. Wish you good health!