Hi doctors i am man and i had intercourse with a man i was the receiving now i have headache joint pain rectal pain diarrhea . what should i do ?

Questions: Intercourse is usually a male and female by definition - so I assume you had oral sex or ano- rectal sex. Also what was the time frame before your symptoms appeared? IT is unlikely that it had anything with your activities.

Get seen now: Most guys explore a variety of kinds of sexual experience. What happened is fine — you’re cool. You do have rectal gonorrhea until proved otherwise and need to be checked for some other things. If you do this again, insist that the other guy use a condom. And I hope that you’ll treasure having shared love— imperfect as human love always is — and that you’ll love wisely and safely.