Hi doc when my partner fore plays with my g spot when he goes up with his finger it hurts any rec or remedies?

Digital pain: No, digital pain is not a "computer" virus problem, rather it is a "human error" problem. Your partner needs to be very gentle when fingering the "G" spot as it is right under the bladder where there is a vascular and nerve plexus. Full sexual arousal is necessary before exploring that location. Additionally, make sure there are no gynecological pathology issues with your GYN MD as well.