I'm 17 and intercourse is super painful for me. i've had sex once a few years ago and now i want to take it to the next level with my boyfriend but it?

Try to relax and...: Women often experience pain the first time they have sex. You were younger and your partner may have been inexperienced and forceful. If you're tense you're more likely to have pain. Discuss with your boyfriend. Go slow and engage in prolonged foreplay so you're relaxed and your glands secrete so you're "wet." A good emotional connection with your lover will also help. If still painful see a Dr.