How do you stop loving someone?

50 ways to leave : Tough question, reminds me of a old song..50 ways to leave your lover. There r many people who engage in destructive behaviors to themselves or others, such as drinking, acting out, etc. The pain of losing love or pepole in life is evidence of your capacity to love - i ecnourage people to consider themselves lucky that they can love, and since they can, the pain will fade and u will love again.

I love someone....: You don't. If this person does not love you back or is unhealthy for you to be with then there is some work to be done to protect your heart, to move on. But, love means you are human and hopeful and have a good spirit. Loving someone is a gift. Now how do you love yourself enough to move forward? That is where a therapist or a life coach may come in handy.