I have a big pimple by my lip, it won't turn white so i cant do something about it! four days now,what can i do to get rid of this red monster? ideas

Red pimple: Hello sweetie, one thing you can do is apply warm compresses to the area. This will bring more blood flow to the area and either allow your body to heal it and re-absorb the contents, or it will bring the contents to the surface and eventually release it. Try not to squeeze it, this often creates scar tissue, and sends some bacteriia deeper into the skin, potentially worsening infection.