Period is 4 days late had some spotting & cramping the day before i should have started took 2 test both neg...pregnant or something wrong?

Waiting game: If you've had unprotected sex and aren't on birth control it's possible you need to wait just a few more days before a home pregnancy test will come out positive if that's the case. If not, it's not totally unusual to have a late period or even a missed period sometimes-irregularity. Sometimes our hormones get out of whack and cause late bleeding and strange spotting and cramping. Best wishes!