Had sex 4 years ago 1st time hurt and bleed. haven't had sex since because every time someone fingers me or tries to penetrate it hurts and i bleed.

There is a : Condition called vaginismus where, upon penetration, the anticipation makes you bear down and tighten up. It makes penetration more difficult, look that up. You may also need 2 be examined. The hymeneal ring on some people is thick, making pain occur then vaginismus develops. There is treatment but my guess is that the bleeding is coming from the vagina itself after u tighten.