My daughter is 3 yrs old and im trying to figure out if there is something wrong. she always has to hold a spoon or an object similar to that and she will stand there and shake it real fast and stare at it and make noises while doing that. she is very ver

I : I don't know the reason that your daughter does this. Sometimes children with autism spectrum disorders can exhibit behaviors like this. Other behaviors could include repeating the same phrases or words over and over. They may rock back and forth or show other repetitive behaviors. I would ask your pediatrician about this. It may not be abnormal but worth asking about.