A member asked:

How come i can't seem to get hard for sex but can when im dancing or alone? i really need help im 20 years old i've been having this problem three times in a row

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Hello. : Hello. I don't know the cause. However, sometimes men develop anxiety to sexually perform well (which wouldn't be there if you are alone or dancing). It can become a vicious cycle, the more you focus on getting an erection, the less you allow nature to just take it's course. Recommend that you focus on giving your partner pleasure & being emotionally intimate instead of focus on how erect your penis is. By not putting this pressure on yourself, you are just letting things take their course. Take care.

Answered 10/3/2016

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