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How can i make guys like me? i am an attractive person. i am honestly pretty. i am smart and athletic. i am nice and somewhere between shy and outgoing. i am caring and considerate. i feel like guys are sometimes intimidated by me but im not sure why. i a

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Hello. : Hello. We all have our own perceptions about ourselves. And other people have perceptions about us. The perceptions might be very similiar or they might be as different as night and day. I suggest that you get some reality feedback. Ask a few people to be candid with you about how they see you. Tell them before hand, not to just say what they think you want to hear and also let them know that only constructive criticism is helpful. This can sometimes be eye opening. On the other hand, if your self- perceptions on right on target, you might have hit it right on the head about some guys feeling intimidated. I recommend that you always be yourself.

Answered 10/3/2016

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